Outsource

We outsource a lot of things jobs, tech support, our emotions, self..... Well you get the picture. In this crazy world we are bombarded especially during this month about love, relationships and the perfect gift for your loved one. If you do not love yourself then you will find it by outsourcing yourself. You will be going to everyone else to find the love that you so desire. You will look for it in sex, hoping that this time it's love. You will outsource it with friends and strangers hoping to find the one who will love you no matter what. If you don't like yourself you are going to do everything you can just to get someone to like you and yet you don't like you. You will end up doing things for others hoping that they will like you and just keep you around. You will not tell them no, you will jump at the chance to help because then they will like you. There comes a point that you must STOP. There comes a point when you realize you are not happy. There comes a turning point in your life that makes you stop and realize that if you learn to love self, like self then others will be able to do the same. It's work. It's hard work but it can be done. You might lose some people along the way and that's okay. They were there at the exact time they were suppose to be to help that part of your journey. You will gain new people in your life, they may stay a short time or a long time. No matter what at the end of the day you have learned to love self and even like self.